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How to Perform a Wedding Rehearsal as Officiant

As a beginner wedding officiant, conducting a successful wedding rehearsal is crucial to ensure the ceremony runs smoothly on the wedding day. A rehearsal is not a full run through of every word of the script and vows, but provides the opportunity to walk through the logistics of the ceremony with the couple and the wedding party so that everyone is on the same page for the big day. Here is a step-by-step guide on how to run an effective wedding rehearsal as the officiant.

What is a Wedding Rehearsal as the Officiant?

A wedding rehearsal is a practice run of the ceremony that typically occurs at the wedding ceremony location one or two days before the wedding. The rehearsal brings together key participants, including the couple, officiant, wedding party, readers, parents, ushers, musicians, and other individuals with a role in the ceremony.

The primary purpose of a wedding rehearsal is to familiarize everyone with the flow and logistics of the ceremony so that they know where to stand and walk, when cues happen, and the order of events. It provides the opportunity to work out any issues in advance and helps ensure that everything runs smoothly when it counts on the wedding day.

As the officiant, you are responsible for directing the rehearsal and guiding everyone through the ceremony from start to finish. You set the schedule, oversee the proceedings, provide instructions, and answer any questions. A well-run rehearsal under your guidance instills confidence in the couple that the ceremony will go off without a hitch.

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Perform the Wedding Rehearsal at the Wedding Venue

Always conduct the wedding rehearsal at the actual wedding venue when possible. This allows you to see the layout and spatial logistics to plan where the wedding party will stand, where they will enter and exit, and visualize the flow of events.

Walk through the venue ahead of time to determine the ideal positions and movement patterns. If using an indoor aisle runner, ensure it is laid out to match how it will be positioned for the ceremony.

Checking sight lines is also important, especially for an outdoor ceremony. You want to ensure visibility for guests seated in the back rows. For a beach wedding, visit at the same time as the ceremony to assess conditions like sunlight, wind, and tides.

For Handy Wedding Tips Check out Tips for Performing Beach Weddings

Create a Detailed Wedding Rehearsal Schedule

Develop a rough schedule for the wedding rehearsal, just as you would for the wedding day itself. Build in a 10–15-minute buffer for potential delays at each stage. Expect that a rehearsal may take twice as long as the ceremony itself at about 1 hour. 

The Rehearsal Wedding Ceremony Outline Step By Step:

  • The Rehearsal Wedding Ceremony Outline Step By Step:
  • Arrival and greetings: 5 minutes
  • Officiant welcome and overview: 5 minutes
  • Wedding party/family processional walk-through: 5 minutes
  • Postioning and Readings: 10 minutes
  • Ritual and ring exhange practice: 10 minutes
  • Pronouncement, Kiss and Signing: 2 minutes
  • Recessional: 5 minutes
  • Final ceremony walk-through: 15 minutes
  • Recap and wrap-up: 10 minutes

Having a set agenda keeps you on track and prevents unnecessary small talk or delays. Adjust the schedule as needed to suit the specific ceremony flow and elements.

Instruct Everyone of the Wedding Rehearsal Running Order

Begin the wedding rehearsal by introducing yourself and your role as the officiant. Provide an overview of the ceremony so everyone understands the basic flow and timing. Cover any venue rules or limitations the participants need to know. 

Position the wedding party and other participants where you want them to stand during the processional ceremony. Guide them through the aisle or processional path at the pace you want to be used in the ceremony, often to the song they will be walking to.

Talk Through the Key Elements of the Ceremony

Next, begin going through the ceremony itself from start to finish. Provide instructions on cues, positioning, and pacing as you proceed through each element.

  • Processional: When does the officiant walk in? Who is walking down the aisle? Where do bridesmaids/groomsmen stand?
  • Discuss the order and timing of people walking down the aisle.
  • Should bridesmaids/groomsmen stand throughout or sit after the processional?
  • Who will cue the officiant and the couple’s entrance?
  • How will the couple greet each other
  • Opening remarks: When do you cue the start? Where are key people standing?
  • Cover how and when you will officially welcome guests and start the ceremony.
  • Readings: Should readers stand/sit? Lectern or hand-held mic? How will you introduce and transition them?
  • Go over when/how readers will be cued and given mics.
  • Have them to practice their readings aloud.
  • Vows: Does the couple repeat after you or recite from memory? Do you want them facing each other or guests? Who holds the rings, and when are they handed off?
  • Discuss options for repeating vows or reciting your own.
  • Confirm they have written their vows and have them ready.
  • Review who will hold the rings and when to pass them
  • Unity ritual: Who assists? What are the cues and pacing?
  • Walk through the ritual in detail.
  • Assign assistants as needed.
  • Practice equipment use or presenting items
  • Pronouncement: The rings exchanged before they are pronounced married.
  • Clarify the order of ring exchange and pronouncement.
  • Decide the cue for the first kiss.
  • Recessional: Order for recession? Does the wedding party follow? Or wait for the couple to have a second kiss up the aisle?
  • Confirm order for recessional and spacing.

Wedding Rehearsal Readings

If there will be readings, Have any readers rehearse their wedding readings aloud during the wedding rehearsal using the lectern/microphone as they will on the wedding day. This allows them to practice their delivery, pacing, volume, and transitions.

You can have them read just a short excerpt or the entire reading. Don’t have the couple read personal vows they’ve written for each other – save those words for the actual ceremony when the moment and emotions are most genuine.

Provide feedback to the readers on:

  • Volume and projection
  • Pacing – Is it too fast/slow?
  • Expression and intonation
  • Body language and eye contact
  • Transitions and intro/closing

Having them practice results in polished, confident delivery on the wedding day.

Practice Any Rituals or Special Moments

The wedding rehearsal is the time to practice any special rituals or activities that will happen during the ceremony, such as:

  • Unity candle or sand ceremony
  • Wine box ceremony
  • Handfasting (tying hands/wrists together with ribbon/cord)
  • Ring warming ceremony

Walk through each ritual step-by-step. Go over positioning, cues, equipment use, and pacing. Have participants practice any words or vows they need to recite. Making sure these special moments go smoothly alleviates stress on the wedding day.

Plan Music and Audio Needs

Discuss music and audio-visual details during the rehearsal with the appointed friend, wedding planner or sound technician.

  • Confirm processional music selections and correct versions.
  • Test equipment – Does it reach all areas and provide clear sound?
  • Ensure you have a microphone for you and your readers. Do vows or rituals require mics?
  • Acoustics – Do you need to adjust the volume for some aspects like readings?
  • Work out fade cues between music and speaking parts.

Checking lighting and AV during the rehearsal ensures it will work flawlessly on the wedding day.

Final Practice Walk-Through

Conclude the wedding rehearsal by doing a full walk-through from start to finish without stopping. Time the ceremony length. This final run-through cements the sequence, transitions, and cues for participants.

Provide a short recap of important reminders – arrival time, attire, order of the processional/recessional, etc. Invite final questions. Hand out your contact information and be available for any last-minute issues before the ceremony.


As a professional wedding officiant, I never actually do a full wedding rehearsal for weddings I perform because I want the spontaneity and emotion of the actual ceremony to be genuine. But conducting a thorough wedding rehearsal is highly recommended for those new to officiating or doing their first wedding. This detailed guide will allow you to run an efficient and effective rehearsal that sets the stage for the wedding ceremony to run flawlessly. 

Special Thanks

Photographer: Memento Collective
Celebrant: Marry Us Gary

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Gary is dedicated to ensuring that wedding officiants and wedding emcees like you excel in creating unforgettable wedding experiences! With a passion for celebrations, he is an enthusiastic, down-to-earth, and fun Wedding Celebrant and Professional Wedding MC, operating in Australia.
Count on Gary to provide expert guidance and a relaxed approach to help you deliver remarkable ceremonies and receptions. His goal is to empower you to curate the best possible wedding day for couples, where every detail is thoughtfully arranged, and the party atmosphere is electrifying!